Cirles of everyday living

Considering my blog is all bout circles of life and the dots that add up everyday, i think its important if i put my theory down.

I believe that life is a circle that we are meant to follow...this might sound crazy but....We were meant to live in this circle in a certain way,and if we get out of this circle which we can and come back we miss the very importat things that we were meant to have had.
For example if we get out of the circle and in this i mean if we go out and have sex at an unapproriate time when we are young or with HIV/AIDS infected people, we will go back to the circles but with wounds from getting out like, getting pregnant, aborting or worse being infected with HIV/AIDS. So that means that when get out we can still come back but as different people with wounds that may never be healed.
The person we were suppose to meet we meet them but at the wrong tym or for the the wrong reasons or worse miss them at the bus station. Let me explain that.....if we get out of the circle and start doing stuff like drugs, anything 'wrong' and we come back to the circle we miss 'the' special guy or chick we were ever meant to meet or worse we end up with the peron(s) we were never suppose to have met in the first place.

Simply what am asking and saying is have we done stuff that have made get out of the circles and come back with wounds, have we gone out of the circle come back lucky but at a price of missing the most special moments or person(s) and we will only realize this when its too late,are we already outside the circle and have hope that maybe we are not lost or too deep to get out after being out of the cicle for so long, will meet 'the' ones we are meant to meet and have the opportunities we are meant?
You tell me.....